Just say which games they are, and I'll see if I can tell anything. (What type of game and with who - possible your color if your playing 2 game match)
You can click on the person, and see all games going - and look at each game going I believe.
(hide) If you don't want other users to know what you are doing you can change into cloak mode in Settings (paying members only). (pauloaguia) (show all tips)