435152: If you do not want to play games where your opponet has 10 days to make a move then I suggest you do not make or accept them.
You have some interesting comments to make but continual whinging is not one of them. Further whinges about playing times and the the like will be edited or deleted.
(hide) If you want to save on bandwidth you can reduce the amount of information that shows up in your pages in the Settings. Try changing the number of games in the main page and the number of messages per page. (pauloaguia) (show all tips)