WatfordFC: my best friend is going through exactly that situation.you are not alone,i'm sure many can relate to this.
she offered these links:
www.menopause-online.com/
www.menopause.org/
www.menopausejournal.com/
www.earlymenopause.com/ in menopause years before you expected it. Message board, links, articles.
www.4woman.gov/menopause/
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www.mayoclinic.com/health/menopause/DS00119
www.webmd.com/diseases_and_conditions/menopause.htm
www.emedicinehealth.com/menopause/article_em.htm
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Menopause
news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/medical_notes/455393.stm
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note esp re menopause & eating:
www.patient.co.uk/showdoc/27000591/
https://lists.cs.columbia.edu/pipermail/ornet/2004-April/009045.html
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http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&lr=&safe=off&q=menopause+sick+after+eating