Winning or losing is irrelevant it is how one plays the game.
My hope is for close games regardless who wins. I will always offer a greeting at the start of a game and believe those who don't return my greeting are not nice and show a low sporting ethos. Unlike the majority of the human race I don't claim to be perfect.
I have a huge dislike for cheating on any level.
As stated, while far form perfect, i am happy with my actions and will openly explain them and admire those with the courage to do the same .