i was told that you have to have the chess quality to be a good player. that is : good memory, patience and killer instinct.
here @ brainking.com i found out that it is a good place to train yourself to be very very patient.
first i have no patience with people playing a very slow game. now i konw how to play against them.
i just play the game slower than my opponent. if he made a move per two days, i just move in 3 days even to the limit 30 or 40 days.
playing this way i have lots of time browsing around, may be i could find a better move and i enjoy that my opponent always waiting for me on the side line....