this isnt gardening but.....???

has anybody had personal experience in losing someone thru death?

what have or has been done to console and comfort pets???

My wee Bear (shih-tzu) is pining (sp) for Vern...will not go outside...pee'd on the mat in the night and is generally got a sad hang-dog look.

Im sorry Foxy, but gardening, pets, digging holes, and crap on the lawn seems like it all fits in...*:)*