If you click on "My profile" on the left (or top, if you're using row layout) and click the blue (edit) beside "My Profile". There are option buttons there that allow you to select the appropriate selection :-)
(sakla) You can send a message to your friends with just one click by adding them to your friends list and then clicking the small envelope by their name. (pauloaguia) (Bütün ipuçlarını göster)