I thought most people are avoiding MSN messenger.
there are ones with much better features.
and the fact that MSN messenger permanently leaves a port open makes it easy for spyware & viruses to get in.
I learned the hardway.then I reviewed tham all.I am using ICQ now,esp since it recently has new features:
buddy list can be imported from other messengers
messenger games

but my google lab buddies tell me googles new messenger leaves them all behind.
I havent checked it out yet.