Jim Dandy:  You don't need to be forgiven, Jim Dandy.  You express a sentiment held by millions.  Everytime I see or hear Tina Turner, I thank God she got herself out of that marriage alive, and that she has been able to spend the rest of her life as far away from the devil as she could get.  At least now her life is full of the good.  You described Ike Turner to a T.  My first reaction to the news of his death was, "finally".  Beyond that, I did not go.  Thank you for voicing your true feeling.

srnity:  It's difficult to watch those videos when one feells so powerless.  It's like being socked in the face.  What I'd like to see is a solution, and an attempt to put that solution into action.  We know what the problem is.