With all respect, that's the whole point about a discussion. To take situations, issues etc, and discuss. If you notice, the player involved has not been "discussed" since. Thus, he bares no significance now. But, the "issue", is quite an important one as far as I'm concerned, and needs to be addressed sooner rather than later.

Basically, from experience, it is hard not to hold a grudge against those who ignore, and especially decline without reason, an invite.

Sorry if this offends, but I feel this should be "discussed" whilst this site is still in it's infancy.

Daf