WatfordFC:

I have searched google to try to find a picture of a betulia but had no luck
All I could surmise is that it is a variety of begonia....perhaps similar to a rex begonia.  Is it an indoor plant?  I know that rex begonias can be tricky as too much or too little water can kill them quickly.  Also it is suseptible to spider mite infestation.

ajtgirl: It prefers sunlight, and its on my patio at the moment. I have been feeding it miracle gro, but it looks so sick.

WatfordFC:

Check the underside of the leaves to see if there are any creepy crawlies on it

ajtgirl: I have and there is :o(

WatfordFC:

Get some insecticidal soap right away and spray it every 4 days

is She amazing, folks, or what?

plaintiger: awwwwwwwww thanks :o) lol

WatfordFC: lol...well yes, You're amazing too, Lady!

ajtgirl: soap?? Ok i will , will get some today, i also noticed lots of little cobwebs too around the base of the plant

WatfordFC:

Sounds like you have spider mites.
They are tiny and difficult to see but the webs are a dead giveaway.

Insecticidal soap is sold at any nursery or garden store and is not harmful to the enviornment.

You must spray several times per the instructions on the label to be effective and kill the adults and the larvae.
Good luck!

WatfordFC: Could you be overfeeding with the Miracle Gro?

Foxy Lady: I dont think so, i only feed it per the instructions which is once a fortnight :o(