The point is.... I may want to play every day, but there are times when that may not be possible, therefore, It wouldn't be right for me to play in a one day tournament because, although I may be willing to play every day, I may have an occasional problem playing everyday.

guess the point I am trying to make is that you should choose games with a time limit where that is the most time you plan on using between turns and not the least amount of time you will use.

If you can only play once every 4 days, then you should not be in a game with a 4 day limit, you should be in a 7 day limit or something. If you can only play every 7 days, yuou should be in a 21 day limit or so, just in case of problems.

The limit on the games you play should be the most time you will take, not the smallest!