yes, we need calm.... yes, some of us don't have time to play more than 20 and might not have the extra bucks to pay for membership.... but BY GOLLY this site is for fun and relaxation..... not to blow up over piddly stuff..... heck, i have had people resign and block me just because it looks like i am about to win the game....geeezzzzz..... do we have to turn into 7 year olds?.....maybe i said that wrong.....i would love to turn into a 7 year old again.....doggone it