Subject: Re: if I have problems with another player
crosseyed: Thank you ! Sorry if I don't help you on this board but I really hate to fight with people. But I understand that people want to defend their opinion. I always read the messages on the boards and make my own opinion and keep it for myself.
Carnie: Brian had already made his mind up about how much he dislike this site. In fact I tried to encourage him to stay and offered to pay for membership. But every time he posted at the time it was to put down this site and Fencer. If he was so unhappy all he had to do was leave. So in the end he did annoy me. But I am not the reason why he stopped posting. And as it happens he did posts the other day in another discussion board. Some people think you are heavenrose!
speachless: I would not want you to support me on anything. But this female sent me three invitations to her Fellowship. And on the second one she was not in the fellowship. As I have already stated I found that strange and when I put my reason for declining the message went to another player who knew nothing about being Big Boss in that site. Then I was amazed that heavenrose sent me another invitation to her Fellowship and again I politely declined. Then for what ever reason she resigned all her games with me bar one that she was about to win. I found that strange too. So I decide to post in the Fellowship discussion board about it and I never put her name. But she responded to my post.
heavenrose: I'm not mad at you. Just don't like drama. When you sent me a fellowship invite from my good friends fellowship (Purples World )who died two years ago I did kind of freak out. I never even said anything to you but I'm sure many has ask you to sort of back off. Stop with all the messages, etc. Some of us are here to play games not chat. Just because I don't talk to you or reply to you or play games with you is not personal.
Marshmud: Marshmud I don't see it as bully to me. I saw it as bully to heavenrose directly through crosseyed. Your reply is fine to me, I don't see any attacks from your side, you just explained your frustration
speachless: If you see it as crosseyedmary and me vs you and heavensrose you really are missing the story here. My post had nothing to do with crosseyed or the past between anyone else but Rose. I should of just directly messaged heavensrove but I thought my public post would help clear the smoke...not to make anyone felt attacked. Sorry. and my last comment on this issue.
Marshmud: she did this with me as well. but instead of getting frustrated i asked her. and then i understood and i thought, fair enough, yes why not. with fellowships, she did this to me too, but then instead of getting frustrated, I asked her through pn and we got into a dialoge, and then i thought like, fair enough, because i understood why she does those experiments.... I understand that you like to play games till the end. I'm not such a longterm user like you, only since 5 years, but i like to play them till the end as well. but people can't be all the same in this f* world, so why shall I get frustrated? but I understand that other users react differently as I do, that's normal and totally understandable. But I will never support crosseyed trying to publicly attack other users (again and again and again and again)....
so Marshmud I respect your explanation and I really understand you and think, your view is fair enough. if I go through the last years discussion boards, I think crosseyed enjoyes publicly attack people, just because he likes or maybe her, I actually don't even care what kind of gender she or he or whatever crosseyed is
I didn't want to take a side. Sorry I replied but I know many players frustrated with this past thread. My issue is multi accounts adding thousands of games and deleting them all. For those who have several years or more history at BK they would understand. I apologize if I offended anyone including heavensrose but I think she understands our frustration as well.
Marshmud: I didn't speak about someone specific. I just pretend that it is cool to have exactly those possiblities and the freedom to decide to delete whatever I want to. But hey, I never opened or deleted any fellowships and 99,99% of my games I play them till the end. If I don't than because I run out of time.
But anyway, you and crosseyed seam to pretend to know why a specific female user deleted fellowships etc. I actually can't go into the discussion about why a people does it. But I can think about a lot of why someone could possibly do it...but again, I actually don't care at all about whoever opened 1000 of games and then deleted them all again, really not. you blocked heavenrose, well fine, fair enough, shouldn't it been in the past for you. or is it here only about to declare that you and crosseyed want to publicly declare heavenrose as ...what exactly?
I don't go into accusing people publicly, it's annoying
crosseyed: you still insist, heh? nothing new to me. so again to my answer, no i didn't relate to whomever deleted the fellowship and games you were complaining, cause I actually didn't care, cause I actually didn't care about you publicly claim someone is doing strange things.
crosseyed: I noticed before you posted about the resigned games and deleted fellowship, there had been one post per year the last two years, and that some people cant post anything without being jumped. Heavenrose has been nothing but sweet whomever she is. I wonder if Brian 1971 stopped posting because of your unreasonable dislike?
speachless: You and I both know it was dig at me because of a past disagreement we had where you still hold a grudge. I predicted that you would get involved in this discussion. Pity I did not place a bet on it.
Modified by speachless (6. September 2017, 11:03:16) heavenrose: and that's cool about brainking! you're free to play or resign or to delete games/fellowships how often you want. I don't see any problems in that :-) and I think it's cool that you don't care about ratings ...
I disagree. Its not cool, imo. I think it is rude to other members,
heavenrose: Its not a big deal however in the past 10 years you have came to BK under many different names, created thousands of tournaments then you delete them all over and over again. Its all within the rules but many of us is tired of you smothering the data base with unwanted games. You keep asking why I banned you from my fellowships....This is your answer. I have banned at least 4 of your nics in the past 6-8 years. It gets old.